For this reason, He sent his word; and healed them, and delivered them from their destructions. Psalm107: 20 A person can never determine if something or someone is destructive unless there is something to compare it to. My childhood would entail a destructive environment but when every one is operating in the same mindset, same habits, same beliefs eventually you will own this behavior and eventully become the product of that environment. When there is no order or guidelines to follow, life can be unrestricted but dangerous. But who doesn’t have rules? Everyone has rules. Even the most prominent leader. Rules can be a blessing when applied to your life. As for me, I lived an unrestricted life, one with little to no supervision. Not to mention, I knew the Lord, grew up in the Church but was lead astray after experiencing the lust of the flesh. But I found my way back home and I couldn't be more happier to be a Christian! Let me tell what salvation means to me. Order my book!